Is it a game, torture, tease, or simply nothing?

Here’s the situation: For all intents and purposes, I’ve been cut off from sex. It seems that more and more lately she gets naked more and wears the sexy lingerie I got her so we both could enjoy them. The thing is, I never get to see any of it. She is sure to let me know it going on. Walks around bundled tight in her robe, leaves all her clothes on the floor, or I find out during the night when some of the blankes she bundled up in slide off her. Knowing this is going on doesn't do me a bit of good because if I touch her or let her know in any way I know she is naked, she gets dressed. She goes in this "I hate men" website. She showed me some of it. I haven't checked it out so I don't know if that's where she is getting ideas to make my life hell. And don't even get me started about her little toy that she seems to loose all the time and expects me to help her find it. Is this just a game she is playing, torturing me, teasing me, or am I making a big deal out of nothing? Frustrating!!